Friday, October 3, 2014

F Throwing a Fit

2.5 to 3 has to be one of the most difficult times any parent faces. On one hand, you are happy that your children can finally begin to express themselves using words and no longer have to rely on ear-curdling screams to express disappointment, unhappiness or frustration. On the other, every other sentence begins with "I want..." or "I need..."

We are working on "May I please have..." And every now and then, the heavens will part, the angels will sing, and F or G will say something like, "May I have more juice please?"

However, more times than not, this is a typical scene in our house... (Be sure to watch both parts to get the full impact):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93aA6rAlUAo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLgUK27NT_Y

I swear the guy who does these videos has a sixth sense into our lives! He even knows that we realistically think that we can try to logically reason with a two-year-old!!!

In general, on weekday mornings, G will wake up bright-eyed and bushy-tailed with a big smile on her face, ready to take on her day. When I walk into their room, she is typically singing a song or reading a book to her "baby" (a stuffed Charlie Brown doll that I bought for my husband last Christmas because he is a big Peanuts fan, but G has decided to adopt as her own).

F, on the other hand, needs a little more time to ease into his day. He likes to take an extra 10-15 minutes to cuddle deep into his blankets, suck his thumb and hug his pillow.

This particular morning, he was being extra slow getting out of bed, so I carried him out of his room and he collapsed on the carpet in the hall before the bath. In desparation, I said to him, "OK, F, you throw a fit and I'll be back fir you in five minutes."

I proceeded to get G dressed and about 10 minutes later, I said to F, "Are you ready to go potty now?"

He replied, "No! I'm still throwing a fit!"

Good thing that I remember this face too...(at one of the last outdoor concerts of the season).