A couple weeks ago, I wrote about how I tried to keep a positive attitude through all this. So far, it really hasn't been that hard and I honestly have been happy for everyone who has come out on the other side of this bitter journey.
About an hour ago, I received a call from my sister and she casually announced she is 13 weeks along with her second child (another boy). She's due in September.
They just started trying in September - but she didn't start monitoring until October. Two months - and they're pregnant.
Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?
Why do I have to go through HELL???
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Ughh. Sorry to hear about the announcement from your sister. I remember after my second IVF failure (before we had our son) when my sister announced she was pregnant with her second child. I could barely congratulate her and avoided talking to her as much as I could for a while. It was awful. Hang in there.....you will be a mommy soon. I just know it!! Lots of hugs...
i can spare a hug. sorry you are feeling this way. i know how this feels, as you know. happy for them, sad for me. it's hard to separate sometimes, especially at the onset of this type of news. all i can say is that in a short while, the sting of the news will be over, and you'll just focus on your cycle and adoption plans. you know this, i don't need to tell you. flygirl will be back! she has to be back! she's the positive motivation for all of us. thinking of you! :)
I was just reading through your blog and got kind of confused. On the left hand side under 2011 it said you got a BFP on 3/4 but I don't see any blog posts about it...
I am surrounded by women who always announce pregnancies after little to no trying at all...it's pure torture in the worst form.
Thanks girls! You're right...it's just going to take time to get over the initial shock. It hurts right now, but I'm sure it will get better with time. Oh, and I left out that my sister got a BFP in November - but then got her period...
Lavonne, welcome! No wonder you were confused - I was off by a month with my last two events. It's all corrected now. My FET is coming up on 3/25 - two weeks.
I have no doubt I'll see a BFP, but just can never seem to get to the heartbeat. Hoping this is our time.
In the meantime, we've started to pursue adoption.
Oh no flygirl! I mean you know...its with mixed feelings for your sister but I TOTALLY understand. I don't know why it has to be so hard. But here's a big hug from me...take care FG.
Totally understand those feelings. Your happy but sad too. I'm so sorry. My SIL tried for one month and ended up with twins! Urrrgghhh! Better days are ahead. ((hugs))
Big hugs - nearly 2 weeks to go until you too are PUPO. My young niece just announced she's 5 wks pregnant and my mother starts to tell me how she's so excited to become a great grandmother, while I still have yet to give her a grandchild.
On another note, I had a wicked headache yesterday after my first vivelle patch and wondering if it caused it as I don't usually get headaches. It was right in and above the eye sockets. Dee
Big hugs. Lots of them. My best friend just told me her ultra sound showed a 16 mm long baby at 8 weeks. What we all you and I wouldn't do for that!! You are not alone. We are going through hell right along with you. You will have your day one way or another!
Uggggggggghhhhh. Big hugs to you. These announcements are never easy, particularly when the announcer is so closely related and they announce casually. Time will almost certainly dull the shock/pain, but knowing that doesn't make it easy right now. So optimistic that your babies (yes, plural!) will be born right after hers later this year.
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